Uncle Agony dear,
My boyfriend has developed an irritating habit of unfairly blaming me for the mistakes he makes. When I make a mistake I always admit my wrongs and apologize to him but he never takes the blame for anything and rarely apologizes. Is it safe to stay in a relationship with someone like this?
Name withheld dear,
Do you use locks or any form of security devices in your relationship? Because I cannot certainly determine how safe your relationship is unless I get an answer to that question. Regarding your boyfriend’s behavior, you must understand that boys are generally used to their girls doing everything for them. When he comes back from work tired, be caring enough to unload the blame from him, keep it somewhere in the sitting room till morning maybe and let him rest. Then while he’s asleep, be responsible and get the apology yourself. They tend to keep them in their wallets. Don’t worry about his reaction when he sees the wallet empty in the morning. That’s just him trying to find his blame before heading to work.